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Tragedy & Loss

Updated: Mar 27, 2021


In my post, From ankle deep to knee deep, I discovered my great-grandmother Eliza Roberts, had been only 13 when her mother died.


Well, this week I’ve sadly found that another great-grandmother, Jane Hick, (pictured right) lost her mother at a similar age. In fact, she was only 12 and her mother, Eleanor Hick (nee Williams) was only 32.


Christmas tragedy


Naturally, I sent for her death certificate and it arrived yesterday. Distressingly, Eleanor died at home in Great Witley, Worcestershire, on New Year’s Eve, 1872. I can’t imagine what that must have been like for the family. My great-grandmother Jane would have been, at 12, the eldest of the 5 children (I mentioned them last week in my post, Propaganda & Mystery), meaning her little sister and mother’s namesake, Eleanor, would have been only 10, and her brothers, James 8, Ernest 7 and Josiah just a toddler of 2 years old.



Eleanor’s death certificate gives her cause of death as a blood clot in the heart. I was surprised at the diagnosis being so specific but there was no indication on the death certificate that there’d been a post mortem, though I’m told it wasn’t always noted, even if one was carried out.


Childbirth


One puzzling thing I noticed was the final word of the cause of death. It looks like purperial. Could it be puerperal, referring to the six week period following the birth of a child? Did Eleanor suffer from complications after childbirth? My first check in the birth records drew a blank and I wondered whether the baby was stillborn, as stillbirths were not registered in England until 1926.


But on reading Eleanor’s death certificate more closely, I realised that as she’d died at the end of December, her death wasn’t registered until the new year – 2nd January 1873. I’d been looking for the baby in the wrong year!


I went back to the indexes and found the answer to my question. Eleanor had given birth to a little girl, Eliza, who survived.


So now the poor children’s father, James Hick, had been left with 6 children to care for, including a babe in arms. No doubt the family rallied round, as I found Eliza on the 1881 census living with George and Diana Hill (nee Rowley), in Little Witley, recorded as their niece, though I’ve yet to establish where the pair fit on the family tree.


Visit to Little Witley


Many years ago I went to Little Witley to visit a gorgeous cottage garden there which I'd seen featured in gardening books, completely unaware at the time of my family history connection. I wonder how close I was from where Eliza and her aunt and uncle had lived?


I shall leave you with some photographs of that gorgeous garden.



(The bottom right photo is my own but the others are courtesy of Wikimedia Commons, © Graham Taylor. )


You can find more photos online by Googling Eastgrove Cottage Garden/images.


Happy browsing!


 

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4 Comments


sheelinsgene
Mar 28, 2021

Many decades ago my classmates and I on the way to school would pass a little house with a very tall and solid wall. Behind the gate we told tales of witch that would imprison children. In spring, on a dare, I opened the gate with the plan on knocking and running away. But in front of me was the most splendid cottage garden I could ever imagine. After a few minutes of staring a lovely woman came out and sent me home with stalks of snapdragons. I can shut my eyes and 50 years are gone. That was a real magical garden!

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Wendy Percival
Wendy Percival
Mar 28, 2021
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Oh, what a lovely memory! I adore cottage gardens. Seeing a good one can take your breath away. My mum always grew snap dragons when we were children. My sister and I used to call them “yeah, yeah, yeahs” because if you squeezed the sides of the blooms, they would open like little mouths singing the famous Beatles’ song! 😂 It just so happens that I have a packet of snapdragon seeds waiting to be sown in my greenhouse later this week!

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Carolyn Retallick
Carolyn Retallick
Mar 27, 2021

What a very sad story😥 The times were hard and medicine was not as advanced as it is now. Sadly, there were so many stories like that, but it makes it real when it's one's own ancestors!

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Wendy Percival
Wendy Percival
Mar 27, 2021
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It does indeed, Carolyn. And I’ve come across a fair few unpleasant “ways to go” among my ancestors. Makes us especially grateful for the advances in medicine since those times!

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